U.S. gay culture

gay "in English is the meaning of homosexuality, so regardless of gay or lesbian, they can say" I am gay! "non-gay people in English is called" straight ". In Asia, I almost do not feel or to homosexual groups, the existence of gay culture. If a boy is too feminine manners conversation, we at most say that he is "sissy" only, but will never be such a personal style rose to a high degree of sexual orientation. In the United States may be is another question entirely. Here, if a boy speaking in satay satay gas, like the same as the girls bounce to bounce to, or兰花指out at every turn, then, he do not need any explanation and excuse, 1 "He is gay" will be deducted immediately predominant around. dumplings have a friend TOM, everyone told me that he must be gay, but it does not recognize his own. Later, I asked those who feel that the TOM is gay friends in the United States, based on the reasons for what they will think that TOM is gay, they cited the following reasons: 1 TOM talk particularly high tone (high pitched). 2, he has never taken the initiative to introduce his girlfriend to everyone understanding of the mystery all day long. 3 winter when he is always wearing a scarf. (United States more than boys regardless of winter cold, it will adhere to resist the scarf, because they feel that the only girls and gay boys thought it would be wearing.) 4 he did not like bowling, because he felt it would hurt his hand. 5 He likes the film "Amelie" (translated into English ' ), it seems the boys in the United States, it is only girls and gay boys only like to watch movies. 6 His hobbies are painting (oil painting). 7, his uncle is gay, so his body gay gene. They also have a lot of strange reasons, anyway, is absurd . Recently, TOM has a new girlfriend, but also to introduce a lot of initiative. I thought that way, those who think that TOM is the gay friends who shut up the bar, but others like a woman, but a friend dumplings TOM feel they are gay because they think that TOM urgent need to cover up their sexual orientation, so hastily to find a girlfriend. now I am afraid I am the only one in a protest against an injustice TOM. Therefore, in the United States, as a boy, If you lack of masculinity, then, I am sorry, you are often baffling to wear a "you are gay" has been predominant. thing from tom, I gradually found that Americans love to others with labels, labels. If you are certain behavior is not understood by others, or with their heads fixed in the image you should be different, (for example, straight man should be how, gay man should be how) they would feel very uncomfortable, so they will give you a label, you should you fall into the group, and then tell them myself, Oh, I see. In this way, your behavior can be explained perfectly justifiable . Americans all kinds of people to define the criteria too much, of course, their control of these is called "stereotype" (model of the opinion, old-fashioned, the old frame). Although the Americans also know that to use these rules to individuals under the is defined to represent the whole picture, ignore individual differences, but in society, this phenomenon is still popular. In particular, the U.S. media, a lot of TV shows and movies are among the invisible homosexuality to be reinforced with the image. which There are several in the United States is fire program. One of them is "queer eye for the straight guy". This program has been broadcast in Hong Kong, Hong Kong-style translation for the "powder-hung reinforcement." each episode focuses on its five different expertise in how to gay guys in straight guys (non-gay) to the outside from the inside out there. Having said that, I have to talk about the Americans and the eyes of gay guys is how the image. Of course I am talking about is still the stereotype . may not be all gay guys are like. "gay guys" image of the public in general is: 1 on the fashion, the trend of a particular opinion, there is taste. 2 usually wear their attention particularly. the average U.S. male is the upper T-shirt, shoes jeans lower part of the body. and definitely not gay guys. Their clothes are always carefully match a particular style looks will not be looked sloppy slovenly . They will wear silk clothes, boys generally do not. 3 They like to go to the gym to do exercises, so very good shape. They do not mind wearing a tight T-shirt, because that can build their highlights. but there are many of them are very handsome, and so in the United States, some in praise of their favorite girls When the boys would say: "you are too cute to be straight" (You are too handsome, and can not not gay!) and some girl told me that the United States, they have fallen in love with gay guys than gay guys because they really long may be a太帅. had they thought that their women can be gentle on those gay boys to be modified, but the result always failed. listened to them lament that sound, you can imagine that the degree of handsome gay guys a. 4, their feelings are very delicate, as compared with other men, gay men are usually more understanding. In addition, they are usually very competent and girls come. in the "powder reinforcement hung" in that each of the five gay men have their own specialty. Some people responsible for the straight man who selected choice of hairstyle, clothing; some man-made changes in his household furnishings; Some people taught him how to start from the diet to improve the quality of life. In short, this 5 will be gay men, gay men with a unique and delicate care to save one , there is no taste of style straight man. the United States in recent years in the hit TV series "sex and the city" (Chinese translation for 'sexy city 'or' Sex and the City '). The TV series from the four single women start to experience feelings of each person the main line to explore the American single women for love, marriage and sexual views. In this series, the beautiful of Carrie and Charlotte have a gay friend (gay boyfriend), always guarded in their side, for their advice. With the "sex and the city" of the epidemic, the current way of life is cool in a few gay hand friends. a lot of girls think this is nothing. First of all, gay men are not interested in on the President, so the girls do not have to worry about his interaction with her is "with ulterior motives, and another attempt." Second, women children can complete their gay friends as "blue-green friend", aware that certain衷肠, just as girls and girls. There is another girl who could be with a male friend shopping spree . the next time, if you are in shopping malls to see a girl in a boy's hands linked, to buy clothes in high spirits, they can not take for granted that they are the couple, because very few non-gay men to be with his girlfriend interested in shopping. Generally speaking, the U.S. men will go shopping whenever the listlessness. I once drove the streets in Salt Lake City, when I stopped at a red light when the two Asian girls (up from the behavior look at Chinese people should be) started to cross the road hand in hand. This would in China, should be a very common thing. sisters, feeling good; hand in hand, crossing the road. But in the United States, is to provide the men's sexual fantasies are unlimited material. only in my car stopped next to the men seated, all eyes looked at this two-China sister有说有笑their way through the front of the car for water DC-like. I am particularly clear what they thought, they think: "God! How can I be so fortunate, so a pair of hot lesbians (lesbian sexy) so I ran into a. Whenever I tell my friends here in China, men, girls walk hand-in-hand in the street is a very common thing is that their sexual orientation can not, they always feel Daihatsu Road: "That's HOT ! (a sexy too! Americans at every turn on the use of the word, meaning and sexy almost) revealed that unconsciously envious of the Chinese men's eyes, revealing no doubt. In the United States, men (except outside the gay men) to women homosexuality] are, in particular, are beautiful lesbian obsession with a particular fascination. In their eyes, I am afraid there will be no more than lesbians are more affectionate with the idle speculation. If you have read the film "American pie "(American Pie), it should still remember the scene: the leading man in films at the expense of their own sex (with boys affectionate) in exchange for a pair of beautiful lesbian mutual affectionate. I also participated in some of the more crazy party. some pretty girl to become the focal point of kissing with another girl. This practice has never lapsed. immediately, all the boys will come Wai, because no one wants to miss this "free lunch, "brilliant scene. Some Americans of open-minded horrifying. in the United States in addition to gay (gay) and lesbian (lesbian), there is a group known as the" bi ", which is" bisexual (bisexual) "acronym. this group of people in both men and women can be. They are interested in women and men. Their logic is that" It doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman . What matters is the person himself / herself. "(gender does not matter, it is important that the person itself.) freedom of the United States is a very popular local culture. For this reason, many homosexuals have the courage to stand up and be able to recognize their own sexual orientation. However, in recent years, many people argued whether sexual orientation is completely determined by the congenital or acquired as a result of too liberal social environment for many people take it for granted that homosexuality was a life choice of life way. Many people are worried that society is too lenient to the extent that was originally formed by a right and wrong standard because "This is his personal choice, the right to interfere in other people" and be forgotten. more people in In this environment of fear of the younger generation will grow up not because the lack of social environment on sexual orientation "wrong with" a clear standard to follow to become free, or even worse to try to catch up with homosexual lifestyle trend thrills. in the Clinton sex scandal and can be narrower Jane's " " After the incident, more and more Americans began to reflect on the freedoms of this great social atmosphere, as well as almost everything people "do not care" attitude as they perfect as advertised. it is necessary to mention here, not all parts of the United States will be less tolerant of homosexuality and understanding. The United States is rooted in a Christian country. mentioned in the Bible, marriage is a sacred creation of God, and Marriage must be a combination of man and a woman. This explains why the central United States, the Southern conservative Christians would be so intense to resist and obstruct the legalization of same-sex marriage. Last watched a documentary, which tells the central United States on a where more extreme conservative Christians discrimination against homosexuality. they do not allow their children and friends of homosexuals. last year's U.S. presidential election, the legalization of homosexual marriage is that the United States the two political parties, the Democratic Party and the Republican debate on sensitive issues. the United States homosexuality were the main gathering strong trend in the United States free of major cities, particularly Los Angeles and New York to the most significant.